i'm really not so sure i want to go to vegas in april. we already have a trip paid for and planned for the end of may, so do i really *need* to be there less than a month before that? not really.
to boot, i'm going to be expected to be a parking stall for a stupid girlfriend. i can already feel it. ch's friend sm is dating a real egghead ditzy 20 year old whose ambition is to lock herself into a relationship and do nothing but spend money. i've met this girl once at a wedding and although she was beautiful, she had no manners or tact and was quite juvenile.
at one point in the evening, sm and i were talking at a table. she was up on the dance floor dancing and flirting with other wedding guests and right away i could see the future of this relationship clearly. sm is my age, she is barely 20 with guys chatting her up here and there and she was soaking it all in and clearly loving the attention. if i was sm, i'd be concerned about what she's doing when i'm at work all day. i'm just sayin. after she had finished dancing/flirting, she realised that her meal ticket might not appreciate it, so she rushed over to his side and sat there while we conversed. instead of actively listening, she started whispering in his ear and giggling and they started in on a private conversation...quite frankly, i thought it was rude of her to come up and act that way. sure, if you want to have a conversation with your significant other i'm not going to stop you, but there is something so deliberately rude and just downright immature to purposefully exclude someone sitting at a table that is just unforgiveable in my opinion. i got up and left them and said nothing.
we ended up taking a taxi back to the hotel where we were staying and sm wanted to go for a beer before bed with us. i was more than tired of his gf tanya. her rude behaviour and endless whispering and tittering (and she DOES have a tittering laugh that is really fake and annoying and OHMYGOD i want to poke my ears out annoying) drove me batty, so i went to bed. ch decided he'd have a nightcap with them and went to the bar in the casino. he said they all sat down at the bar and she immediately started in with her whispering and tittering at sm and it was to the point where sm's back was turned to ch...ch got sick and tired of it and finished his drink and got up and left without saying goodbye. sm and tanya didnt notice.
i foresee her expecting sm to pay and fund her entire trip to vegas and i think that sm just expects me to be the parking stall for tanya while he is off either gambling with ch or visiting the oil convention. all i can say is HELL NO.
i do think i'm getting very cantankerous in my old age because i know what i will NOT put up with. and it's getting to the point where i really dont give a horse's ass if i say it out loud to sm and tell him that there's no way i'm going to reduce myself to a 78iq to get down to her level to entertain her on my vacation.
other guys attending these kinds of functions just expect me to entertain their gf's. darren falls into the same category, and i never heard the end of it when i had spa reservations made which left his gf to her own devices during the day while we were in mexico in 09. she was always sure to tell me how displeased he was about it. i expect the same of sm.
again, i'm too cranky...instead of bottling this shit up, i'm just going to blow. i can already feel it...
Sunday, January 10, 2010
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i'm really not so sure i want to go to vegas in april. we already have a trip paid for and planned for the end of may, so do i really *need* to be there less than a month before that? not really.
to boot, i'm going to be expected to be a parking stall for a stupid girlfriend. i can already feel it. ch's friend sm is dating a real egghead ditzy 20 year old whose ambition is to lock herself into a relationship and do nothing but spend money. i've met this girl once at a wedding and although she was beautiful, she had no manners or tact and was quite juvenile.
at one point in the evening, sm and i were talking at a table. she was up on the dance floor dancing and flirting with other wedding guests and right away i could see the future of this relationship clearly. sm is my age, she is barely 20 with guys chatting her up here and there and she was soaking it all in and clearly loving the attention. if i was sm, i'd be concerned about what she's doing when i'm at work all day. i'm just sayin. after she had finished dancing/flirting, she realised that her meal ticket might not appreciate it, so she rushed over to his side and sat there while we conversed. instead of actively listening, she started whispering in his ear and giggling and they started in on a private conversation...quite frankly, i thought it was rude of her to come up and act that way. sure, if you want to have a conversation with your significant other i'm not going to stop you, but there is something so deliberately rude and just downright immature to purposefully exclude someone sitting at a table that is just unforgiveable in my opinion. i got up and left them and said nothing.
we ended up taking a taxi back to the hotel where we were staying and sm wanted to go for a beer before bed with us. i was more than tired of his gf tanya. her rude behaviour and endless whispering and tittering (and she DOES have a tittering laugh that is really fake and annoying and OHMYGOD i want to poke my ears out annoying) drove me batty, so i went to bed. ch decided he'd have a nightcap with them and went to the bar in the casino. he said they all sat down at the bar and she immediately started in with her whispering and tittering at sm and it was to the point where sm's back was turned to ch...ch got sick and tired of it and finished his drink and got up and left without saying goodbye. sm and tanya didnt notice.
i foresee her expecting sm to pay and fund her entire trip to vegas and i think that sm just expects me to be the parking stall for tanya while he is off either gambling with ch or visiting the oil convention. all i can say is HELL NO.
i do think i'm getting very cantankerous in my old age because i know what i will NOT put up with. and it's getting to the point where i really dont give a horse's ass if i say it out loud to sm and tell him that there's no way i'm going to reduce myself to a 78iq to get down to her level to entertain her on my vacation.
other guys attending these kinds of functions just expect me to entertain their gf's. darren falls into the same category, and i never heard the end of it when i had spa reservations made which left his gf to her own devices during the day while we were in mexico in 09. she was always sure to tell me how displeased he was about it. i expect the same of sm.
again, i'm too cranky...instead of bottling this shit up, i'm just going to blow. i can already feel it...
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