oh it's the inlaws' mantra.
ch's cousin is in town this weekend staying @ the sil's. must be going really well *sarcasm if the sil has had to contact us both several times to try to get us to come over and entertain her.
she MUST be desperate, as she even bb messaged me this afternoon hinting around and wanting to know what it was we were doing this evening. wanting to know if we wanted a bbq, movies, bowling, drinking, or just what. i didnt really say too much. of course i responded. probably shouldnt have, as she hasnt responded to my texts.
of course she tried calling ch first and left him messages on his cell. she knows better than to call here directly, even tho she'd probably get an answer faster. i just love how she suddenly reaches out on the bb messenger system when she cant get what she wants from ch. hasnt talked to me by making initial contact in four months, but now she needs my response? fucking bullshit.
so i had responded kinda vaguely. i figure it's not my decision to make in terms of figuring out the evening. i really couldnt care less about seeing the cousin and figure she's sil's problem in terms of entertaining her. of course the sil spins it as her being charitable in allowing us to share time with the cousin. of course. in reality, it's just her way of sloughing off the responsibility of entertaining someone. at least that's how i see it.
i never said anything to ch about her texts and messages. i knew that i'm plan Z in terms of contacting, so i know that he would have had texts and communications sent to him. i'm the last resort. i was out repotting my tomato plants and could hear him upstairs on the phone having a covert conversation with her.
it's funny to me that he feels like he has to phone her in secret. in the past he's often talked to her in the car. she always seemed to phone him while he was driving (or he phoned her) and he'd pull into the garage, shut the car off, and sit there and talk for 15 minutes in a darkened garage. on her stressful days (which seem to be frequent), he'd be out there sometimes for as long as 45 minutes talking her out of her tree. it always irked me that he thought he had to do it secretly, lest i get angry and implode on him. ffs, it is his sister, however i find that once you give her an inch she'll take full liberty to step over your toes and wear your pants.
so she and he conversed. i have no idea what was said about this evening or if anything was decided. he's decidedly mum on the subject, and coincidentally, so is she. hasnt said sweet fuck all in response to me. now that she has what she wants (either a positive or negative response), she has no use for me.
fucking transparent.
i never should have responded to her bb text...next time i swear i'm ignoring it. hell, i'll delete it.
Saturday, June 19, 2010
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oh it's the inlaws' mantra.
ch's cousin is in town this weekend staying @ the sil's. must be going really well *sarcasm if the sil has had to contact us both several times to try to get us to come over and entertain her.
she MUST be desperate, as she even bb messaged me this afternoon hinting around and wanting to know what it was we were doing this evening. wanting to know if we wanted a bbq, movies, bowling, drinking, or just what. i didnt really say too much. of course i responded. probably shouldnt have, as she hasnt responded to my texts.
of course she tried calling ch first and left him messages on his cell. she knows better than to call here directly, even tho she'd probably get an answer faster. i just love how she suddenly reaches out on the bb messenger system when she cant get what she wants from ch. hasnt talked to me by making initial contact in four months, but now she needs my response? fucking bullshit.
so i had responded kinda vaguely. i figure it's not my decision to make in terms of figuring out the evening. i really couldnt care less about seeing the cousin and figure she's sil's problem in terms of entertaining her. of course the sil spins it as her being charitable in allowing us to share time with the cousin. of course. in reality, it's just her way of sloughing off the responsibility of entertaining someone. at least that's how i see it.
i never said anything to ch about her texts and messages. i knew that i'm plan Z in terms of contacting, so i know that he would have had texts and communications sent to him. i'm the last resort. i was out repotting my tomato plants and could hear him upstairs on the phone having a covert conversation with her.
it's funny to me that he feels like he has to phone her in secret. in the past he's often talked to her in the car. she always seemed to phone him while he was driving (or he phoned her) and he'd pull into the garage, shut the car off, and sit there and talk for 15 minutes in a darkened garage. on her stressful days (which seem to be frequent), he'd be out there sometimes for as long as 45 minutes talking her out of her tree. it always irked me that he thought he had to do it secretly, lest i get angry and implode on him. ffs, it is his sister, however i find that once you give her an inch she'll take full liberty to step over your toes and wear your pants.
so she and he conversed. i have no idea what was said about this evening or if anything was decided. he's decidedly mum on the subject, and coincidentally, so is she. hasnt said sweet fuck all in response to me. now that she has what she wants (either a positive or negative response), she has no use for me.
fucking transparent.
i never should have responded to her bb text...next time i swear i'm ignoring it. hell, i'll delete it.
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