proven right, but does it feel good?

the sil got the flowers.  she did NOT phone or text or email or bb messenger to say thanks or acknowledge it.  i guess it's a regular occurance for her and she get soooooo many floral arrangements that she can hardly keep track of them all, much less phone and thank all her admirers.

*snicker.

instead of asking her directly, which my ch thinks we should do, i called her skool.  i know, i'm a supreme cunt, but i know that ch will circle the wagons if there is even a breath of truth about her.

so the receptionist told me she went into her office and saw the flowers on the desk while she put me on hold.  i told her to NOT let her know i was phoning asking.  so then i kind of snarked and said thanks for checking and i'm glad to find out that i dont have to bawl out the florist and i have confirmation that she's rude.  end conversation.

last night i mentioned to ch that i we sent her flowers and no acknowledgement.  then he said he hadnt heard from her all day and that he'd call her to check and see if she got them.  well, OF COURSE she's going to acknowledge it if you ask directly, you dummy!  not only that, she's going to come up with some lame bullshit excuse about being "busyyyyyyyyyyyy" all day long and too busy to pick up the phone to say a simple thank you.  uh huh, i know her.  it will happen.  and worse yet, he will circle the wagons and justify and protect her rude behaviour, and "how dare" me for suggesting she's a rude little cunt.

i'm meeting up with ch in an hour to see the accountant.  i'm thinking he plans on still phoning her to see what's up about it but i'm going to tell him not to bother saying ANYTHING to her. 

i suppose i knew better before i sent it.  i should have saved my money.  oh well, knowledge is a powerful tool for making future decisions.  next time, listen to your gut.