Saturday, May 15, 2010
josh-o-matic
we started texting and then decided that we'd get together for some drinks since it was nice out. he came over and had a few beer with me last night and we chatted.
i dont think ch was very pleased with it but he pretended to be ok and came out to say hi and then disappeared. just as well. josh has been my friend for over 7 yrs and i love having him around. he's the funniest guy going and he can make me laugh endlessly until it's time to go home. i loved working with him because it was always about laughter and songs and voices and silliness, and through it all we got the job done. i dont think i would have stayed as long as i did at the cafe if it werent for josh.
he stayed a couple of hours discussing his life and wife. he's been married nearly 4 yrs and is very dissatisfied. he married someone from cuba who has become materialistic and bossy and it just sounds like it's everything that josh isnt. josh has always been a free spirit and i recall being able to read him like a book. i knew better than to go into the kitchen and tell him to do something when he was in one of his moods. i just would back off and leave him and then he'd be happy again. it seemed to happen all the time around noon and then he'd get better. i get the feeling that his wife really doesnt get him or his moods.
i feel sadness for him because he is such a funny and bright person. attractive too. i think she is a fool for treating him like shit.
i'm sure there is always more to the story, but he's my friend and i'm going to naturally trust his word. i had heard rumblings that he wasnt too happy but yesterday was confirmation of his misery. he has told me that he'd rather be friends with his wife than married to her. uh oh.
he left and i'm not sure if we'll see each other again. life is busy. we are busy people. i just hope that josh can make it through to the other side unscathed and still remain the person he has always been with or without her.
yesterday i ran into josh twice when i was driving around. we havent seen each other in a while and usually i only see him when we're driving.
we started texting and then decided that we'd get together for some drinks since it was nice out. he came over and had a few beer with me last night and we chatted.
i dont think ch was very pleased with it but he pretended to be ok and came out to say hi and then disappeared. just as well. josh has been my friend for over 7 yrs and i love having him around. he's the funniest guy going and he can make me laugh endlessly until it's time to go home. i loved working with him because it was always about laughter and songs and voices and silliness, and through it all we got the job done. i dont think i would have stayed as long as i did at the cafe if it werent for josh.
he stayed a couple of hours discussing his life and wife. he's been married nearly 4 yrs and is very dissatisfied. he married someone from cuba who has become materialistic and bossy and it just sounds like it's everything that josh isnt. josh has always been a free spirit and i recall being able to read him like a book. i knew better than to go into the kitchen and tell him to do something when he was in one of his moods. i just would back off and leave him and then he'd be happy again. it seemed to happen all the time around noon and then he'd get better. i get the feeling that his wife really doesnt get him or his moods.
i feel sadness for him because he is such a funny and bright person. attractive too. i think she is a fool for treating him like shit.
i'm sure there is always more to the story, but he's my friend and i'm going to naturally trust his word. i had heard rumblings that he wasnt too happy but yesterday was confirmation of his misery. he has told me that he'd rather be friends with his wife than married to her. uh oh.
he left and i'm not sure if we'll see each other again. life is busy. we are busy people. i just hope that josh can make it through to the other side unscathed and still remain the person he has always been with or without her.

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